Do men enjoy giving oral
9 Reasons Guys Love Giving You Oral
It has arrive to my attention that there is a terrible rumor going around about men: that we're egoistic in bed. Hey, I'll admit, there's not a man I know who will decline oral sex from a woman he fancies. I mean, it's a blowjob! It's one of the all-time greatest discoveries—just ahead of Columbus finding America. Still, I take issue with this rumor. Because as much as men like to receive, we also affection to give. If it's not already obvious why, let me explain:
It Extends The Pleasure
The penetration part of sex generally only lasts a scant minutes. I didn't produce this up. There is actual research on this (and even stats on which state lasts the longest in bed). So a fella's best dream for marathon sex—or you know, sex that lasts longer than a commercial break—is to dedicate a little a time to you alone.
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…And Increases Our Odds of a Dual Climax
If there were a race toward orgasm, men would win every time. But it's not a race—sex is a team sport. And getting you revved up before the main event makes it a little more likely that we'll become to cross the conclude line together.
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Do men like giving oral sex?
By Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT
Question: I'm afraid to let a guy to go down on me because I've heard men don't like performing oral sex. Is it true?
This couldn't be further from the truth. As the author of She Comes First (an entire book that's basically one long ode to the joys of cunnilingus), I can honestly say that the vast majority of men that I've spoken with (and I've had the chance to utter to thousands of 'em) take a gung-ho "viva la vulva" attitude when it comes to going down on their female partners.
In fact, many men complain that they're not the ones with the issue. As it turns out, many women, enjoy yourself, worry that guys don't really enjoy going down, or you stress that you're taking too long, or that your smell/taste might be unappealing. Many women also include a low sense of genital self-esteem, and touch like their vulvas are not necessarily their most attractive 's why I have an entire chapter in She Comes First entitled The Cunnilinguist Manifesto, in which I remind men that, "Only by inspiring trust will you lull a woman into a deeper, more instinctive zone of the self, a place where she can shed all inhibition and surrender he
I’ll come right out and say it:
I like oral sex.
Both giving and receiving.
But not all women are like me. Or at least not willing to type it on a webpage for the entire world (hi, mom!) to read.
Most men love blowjobs.
And some women DON’T like giving oral.
But let’s interruption down WHY men passion oral sex so much and how it can contribute to:
- a happier relationship
- a healthier relationship
- less stress and less fights
- healthier division of energetic roles in the relationship
- deeper trust between you and your partner
Men and women don’t always perceive each other. Because speculate what? We are different!!
Men don’t understand these sentimental creatures that they also love so dearly.
And women, well, let’s be concrete. Men aren’t really that hard to figure out. BUT you have to make the effort to actually learn about what makes them tick. And then put those things to practice!
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Ladies, browse on and learn why giving your man a BJ is actually one of the Best things you can do for your relationship.
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3 in 4 Singaporean men love giving women oral sex - here's why you shouldn't be reserved in asking for it
Equal opportunity between the sheets? Not always, when it comes to oral sex. Some women don’t yearn the equality. They appear happy to dish it out for their men but are coy about asking for it in return.
That’s what we set up out when we spoke to 21 women – 11 of them said they prefer to provide than receive. In contrast, only five said they would rather be on the receiving end.
As to why, most of them revealed that they undergo “squeamish” or insecure about their naughty bits. Says civil servant Karen*, “I’m not squeamish about giving oral but I loathe being on the receiving end because I don’t think I taste or smell good.”
Sarah*, 25, who is a teacher, agrees: “Receiving oral sex makes me really uncomfortable and self-conscious. I’m too occupied worrying about my body to enjoy it.”
Why so shy?
We asked 55 men what they thought and here’s the interesting thing: Three out of four wanted you to comprehend this – they treasure going down on you.
Out of that, 45 men said they have encountered women who aren’t easy with getting oral sex and it made them genuinely puzzled. Says Jeffery
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