How do i know if my brother is gay

Dear Big Sis,

Thank you for writing, asking for aid is always a fearless step! I can spot why you’re concerned, but let me start by saying that your brother is very fortunate to have a supportive and caring sister like you. Coming out is a challenging and daunting encounter for everyone, and he took a big and courageous step by opening up to you. Having you as an ally probably has made a world of a difference to him. Sometimes, people feel a lot of pressure to come out, and it may support to let your brother know that he can take his time and wait until he is feels ready to inform them. I’m glad you don’t feel that your parents would react very harshly, but it’s understandable for your brother to be scared of potential reactions.

Is your brother emotionally attached in any local back groups or have any connections yet with others in the LGBTQ community? There is no such thing as having too much support. It may help for him (or both of you together) to talk to other people who have gone through, or are currently going through this process.

Even though you may sense helpless and wish there was more you could do, never underestimate how much your ongoing assist and love will assist your brother.

My brother in law came out as gay to us yesterday, advice needed

My husband has long suspected the possibilty that his baby brother was male lover. He is 30 years old, will be 31 on Feb 1rst. They are all close in age. My DH will be 33 on Feb 12th and their middle brother will be 32 on January 22nd ( phew right?)  Anyways, he has dated girls, he even liked two of my friends and brifely saw them but my husband said it comes down to that his brother tried to meet them. I just don't know what to ponder. I've had gay friends but it's never strike this close to residence before, this is family. This is my kid's uncle's and of his siblings I was closest to him and their little sister ( she's 18 now). We also hadn't seen him in a long time and were very upset, he hadn't seen Gideon since he was born. This is the really gloomy part in all this, he had a worst drug problem and admitted to us of entity addicted to one drug after the other, to the point he was taking heroin in pill form as the last drug of choice. He says it wasn't because of being gay, but ever since their Mom died ( she passed in ) it had been a downward spiral from there and he was very depressed

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