I like a gay man

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Article by Hugo Mega (edited by Alyssa Lepage)

I used to think that “coming out” was going to be the hardest part of being gay. That, entity free to be me, I could finally end pretending. I would be able to drop the heteronormative disguise that I used to wear, to ensure that I belonged and that I felt safe. Little did I know that in the years that followed, more often than not, I would find myself butch-ing up, trying to be more masculine than what I naturally was. How did I find myself here again?

Like walking on thin ice, any incorrect move I made, could easily throw me assist into a loop of old patterns that condition my ways of entity and behaving without me even noticing it.

Tired of this self-limiting pattern, I decided to confront my beliefs around masculinity. Since then I’ve been engaged in deconstructing my conditioning and notions of what it means to be a man. In the process of deconstructing my beliefs it was tough to avoid one’s possess toxic masculinity. I used to believe that organism gay absolved me from being toxic like many straight man can be, but I was wrong.

In this article I will be reflecting on personal experiences and different p

Can a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women in general, and sti

I absolutely do think it possible for a homosexual man to be attracted to a specific lady, but not women in general.
I am a heterosexual woman and own been with my husband for almost ten years. As newly weds, I quickly realized that my husband was gay. Initially I didn't mention anything, cause it didn't bother me, as we were very in love, cheerful and comfortable with one another. He was always effeminate and I felt that he could be himself with me and not hide his sexuality as he would in public. Then one night he came out and admitted to a male love he had in earlier years. He said he was tired of hiding who he really was. He didn't need to be afraid anymore. He didn't want to be scared of creature judged or losing friends. He just felt he wanted to be right to himself. He was so afraid... terrified that I would leave him for coming out. So I told him, that even if he were gay, even if we had come from other religious backgrounds, if he were black, white or yellow, or severly disfigured.... I loved him for his heart, his ethics, his kindness. We create a great team, we have an excellent partnership, we

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