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Can you have gay sex and still be straight?
We assume that these men are gay, or at the very least bisexual, and simply in denial about their sexuality. However, we now realize that one subset of these men—straight men who enjoy getting paid for such sex—can, indeed, be heterosexual. It is not the sex that turns them on, it is the money! They possess eroticized money, and the sense of value they derive from being admired and paid for executing sex acts with men.
I even had one client come into my office and refer to himself as a “cashsexual.” Having cash put into his hand or his PayPal account or Google Wallet, as well as the exhibitionism and accolades he received, turned him on.
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Of course, this eroticization of money is not limited to vertical men
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Many men–gay, vertical and bisexual–can be sexual with the same sex or the opposite sex if money is deeply interested. Most people, however, believe that if a guy accepts money for sex with another man he cannot be straight.
We take for granted that these men are gay, or at the very least bisexual, and simply in denial about their sexuality. However, we now know that one subset of these men—straight men who enjoy getting paid for such sex—can, indeed, be heterosexual. It is not the sex that turns them on, it is the money! They have eroticized money, and the sense of value they derive from entity admired and paid for performing sex acts with men.
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